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Wednesday, March 7, 2012
March 6th
March
6th, 2012
It has
been an adventuresome couple of days! We left Douala on Monday the
5th. We were allowed a late check out as we didn't need
to be at the Airport until 3pm. We checked out promptly at 2pm, and
asked about the 2:30pm shuttle bus to the airport that we had signed
up for, and wouldn't you know, so he could take us immediately!
Yeahhhhh, right? Not really; we were meeting the porter Abdouleye at
3pm. Of course we got there early and no he wasn't there, so Llonda
made the bus driver stay with us to protect our luggage from the
sharks. We had to pay him extra to stay, as well as a young kid who
we had use his phone to call our porter and tell him we were there.
Our previous morning trip to the Cam Air office was a bust, as they
do NOT take credit cards so we used nearly all the rest of our CFA to
pay for the extra luggage fees, and found that nearly everyone had a
roll on carry on with them, which is what we were told we could not
have. So our gifts we left behind in Douala, could have come with,
but didn't.
The Cam Air flight flew from Douala, to Yaounde (the capital) to drop off and pick up passengers, only being a 40 min flight it wasn't all that bad, and they even gave out full cans of beer, as well as pop/or water. Brussels Air being an international flight didn't even offer that! After leaving Yaounde, en-route to Garoua, they offered another drink. Again the flight was fast, at about 1hr 10 min. Despite the smell of body odor it was not all that bad.
Once
landing in Garoua, we were meeting up with Thomas, a connection made
prior by a friend of Llonda's. We walked through the airport and
waited for the sign being held with her name on it. He was a
terrific man, who spoke English well. A man of God who travels all
over Africa spreading the gospel to Muslim's trying to teach them
about Christianity. On the way to our Motel we learned a lot about
what he does, and I was impressed with his faith in God, and the
confidence he has with his beliefs. Our Motel was not far, which we
loved as it was already nearing 9pm. Thomas got us all set up with
our room and agreed to pick us up again in the morning and take us to
the bus station to get on the bus to N'Gaoundere. He left and we
went to our room. After opening the door I hesitated & wanted to
start running after the truck and begging for him to come back and
take us anywhere else. The Motel, which at one point must have been
a fabulous place had been run down, with walls covered in mold and
peeling paint. There was no toilet seat with the toilet in one
bathroom and a baud-ea with the sink and tub, in the other. In a
matter of 5 minutes we managed to break the toilet and the lamp. Our
only light. Llonda went up to ask them to come fix them and no one
spoke any English. It was like a game of charades trying to explain
to them about the toilet and lamp. Finally he said he would come and
look. I think it was mostly just to shut us up. He got them all
fixed. The toilet handles are a plastic pole sticking up out of the
middle of the toilet lid that you pull UP. Not down, in case you
ever need to know:) Since we were too late for dinner, we decided to
try to have a drink at the bar. Llonda asked where it was, and we
started to follow the man. I walked in and turned around and Llonda
was gone. Lovely, I tried to ask the women if she was open and
showed her my watch. She told me 10pm, I looked again at my watch
and saw it was already 10:20. “Oh so your closed,” I said. She
looked at me again and said 10 or maybe 10:30pm. The best she could
say it to me. So again I said, Ok so your closed. Llonda walked in
at that moment and in pure frustration I said “THEIR CLOSED!” We
walked out and she said she wanted to jump in the pool; we had been
sweating all day, and neither of us had showered. Sounded like a
good idea, but we had only one towel in our room. Again to the front
desk for a game of Charades, which was not understood so after this I
reached my breaking point and figured I was best just going in that
awful room and try to go to bed. Scared to even undress I laid on
top of the sheet in a bed that I was jack knifed in from the mattress
sinking to the boards in the middle and I just wanted to cry. Pure
stubbornness kept me from totally breaking down. I set my alarm on
my phone which was all we had, and tried to figure out if he was
going to be there at 5:45am, we had to be up by 5:10, knowing neither
of us would touch a thing in that bathroom, and hadn't even unzipped
any of our luggage just hoping and praying for morning to get there.
I had to set it for 10pm as the time never changed from local time at
home, and so I was hoping it was right. Thomas came with another
nice young man who spoke no English who was also traveling by bus to
N'Gaoundere and he would watch out for us. Thomas got our tickets
and waited for us to get loaded and we couldn't be more thankful for
him, and Jim N., who connected us up with him. He did all of this
for us with asking nothing in return! Which is not common around
here, when it seems everyone expects a tip. And they expect an even
bigger tip if your white. (especially a fat white, that means your
rich). The bus ride was very long. We departed at 7:10am and I sat
in the middle seat between Llonda and an African gal. It was not a
fun ride. Both of them leaning on me, sweating, and no one would
have the window open. African's like it hot! I felt like a was
suffocating a slow a painful death. The road was paved the whole
way which was nice and along the way there were many villages that we
saw with women fetching water out of the well by buckets and rope and
their small stands by the side of the road and the little kids
running around naked or at a minimum a shirt that was too big for
them. Most of the school aged kids were in school, and their schools
are nearby their village. Electricity is not seen for many many
miles on the road and the radio signal is weak for most of the ride.
The closer we get to N'Gaoundere more life starts to appear. You can
see electrical towers on the side, and certainly more markets. We
went up a Mountain before getting into N'Gaoundere, and it is nothing
for these buses to pass other vehicles going up the hill. Lots of
broken down Semi trucks hauling goods, surely due to overheating. At
the bottom of the mountain Security gets on the bus to check our
passports and we are all cleared to continue on. We arrived at the
bus station where one of the hospital workers met us there and waited
for another vehicle to come and pick up our luggage. He drove us
around to see the markets and there must have been markets on every
street. Covered with people we could barely drive through. Honking
left and right he finally gets through and we safely make it to the
Mission Station. We arrived here (the Mission Station) around
12:30pm and couldn't wait to take a shower. It had been since
Saturday night that either of us had showered and we were soaked in
sweat with the same clothes we had had on for days, and my white
shirt was now brown. They showed us to our apartment and informed us
there was no water. Ummmm WHAT! They are shutting the water off
daily from 7-5pm. Really? So here we were with no water and nearly
no money left and filthy dirty. The mission house we are in is big,
with two bedrooms, a living room, dining room table, kitchen,
bathroom and even a laundry area with a washing machine. All of
which we are grateful to have and look forward to being able to have
water. It took all of an hour for Jean Baptiste (the chief
supervisor at the Hospital) to come right over and take us over to
the hospital and show us around. Llonda is clearly well loved over
here and many recognized her right away and were very happy to see
her. It only goes to show that the work she has done over here
before has been welcomed and appreciated. She is happy to be back on
her old stomping grounds and didn't take long to figure out where we
both will be working and needed. The hospital is a large facility,
spread out over a 10 acre complex. (I'm guessing) There are people
every where waiting to be seen, and the Muslims are praying on their
prayer mats in the hallways, outside, and inside. It smells of urine
and the heat only makes it worse. The staff are clearly busy with
patients and much like many hospitals in the states, they are under
staffed and under paid (if they even get paid). They work long hours
7-5:30pm and 5-7am, with 3-4 per unit/department. We were well
greeted, and most of it I'm guessing to due to Llonda's prior visits.
Eric, on of our translators comes and joins us in our walk. He is a
young kid with great enthusiasm and speaks English well. We meet in
JB's (Chief) office and discuss the goals he and his staff have for
us. I wasn't sure what exactly my role would be here, but they were
very excited to have heard of my ambulance/trauma skills and have a
whole list besides the CPR training of things they would like me
train on. Llonda will be focusing most of her time in the ICU's
which she is much of an expert at.
We walk
back to our place with Eric and visit, and ask him to take us to the
market to buy some groceries. He is more than happy to spend the
time with us. We hop on the Moto Taxi's, they are motor bikes, Eric,
I and a driver ride on one, and Llonda with the driver on the other.
They cruise in and out of cars and around pot holes at great speeds.
Truly one would be very injured if they ever crashed. We go to the
market with the little money we have left in CFA and choose our items
wisely and get only the bare essentials. The International day of
Womens festival is going on in town, and Eric suggests we go. We hop
on another moto taxi and head over there. We meet Eric's mom, who
Llonda has met before, and she is a nice woman who is happy to us.
We walk around the festival seeing all of the different types of food
and they way the prepare it in the various areas of the country of
Cameroon. From porcupine, fish, chicken, steak to Boa (snake). Many
vegetables being sold so we jump at the chance to pick up some
potatoes and lettuce. They were cheap and plentiful in amounts
given. We left the festival and went to a local pub, enjoyed a cool
drink and then headed back home. Eric came with to visit, and good
thing he did as we forgot our water. Beings you cannot drink the
water here, it was much needed, so Eric took off with the last
3000cfa we had to buy us some water. As we stood outside with a man
trying to sell us some silver, Adda, JB and another translator showed
up. It was a great surprise as we had no way to communicate with
them that we were here. Word got around fast and they knew. We
talked about the wedding and the plans for the next couple of days,
showed them the dress Llonda had picked up for Danielle (JB's
daughter almost 4yrs). They loved the dress and shoes that she had
picked out. We had a good visit and then they left and we had dinner
plans with Jim and still no water at 7:15pm so we went as stinky and
dirty as we were. Jim picked us up (he is only staying across the
road) and we headed off to Le Plaza; a nice place downtown. The food
was good and the company was excellent. We had wanted to pay for
Jim's meal, but were broke so he had to pay with all intentions of us
paying him back. We chatted for nearly 3 hours. It was hard to
imagine we had been up since 5am and it was going on 10:30pm. Jim
has truly been a god send for us and we could never repay him for all
the contacts and set ups that he has made for us, and the security of
knowing everything will be OK. He is a great man with many gifts and
I am grateful God has brought us into our life. We finished dinner
and came back home and started going over our list from JB (the
chief) of all they would like to have done and where we should start.
We pulled out all of the supplies we had brought with and sorted
what goes where. Finally the water was back on, and it was more than
due time to take care of the S's (s*!t
shower and shave). All three of which I hadn't done in days! We
knew it would be a short morning at the hospital but had to be to
Chapel by 7:30am. Good night all, we love and miss you!
Sunday, March 4, 2012
Our first day in Africa
March
4th,
Woke up
this am around 9am! I was completely shocked that we had both slept
that long. We took our time getting going and met up with a gal who
lives here to give her a bag of stuff sent from her sister who lives
in Duluth. Very nice gal, who speaks English well and her niece came
after. We had a short visit and she is actually going to help us out
by holding some of our extra luggage bags while we are gone to
N'gaoundere.
We went across the street to see the one local vender trying to sell some stuff and they are nice guys who seem pushy, but speak good English and I want to believe they are honest men. We walked down the street a little ways and it's amazing to me that garbage is just thrown in the street and ditches and what garbage cans are out in front of stores are being eaten out of by people. Many sleeping on cardboard, or pallets with plastic and their shoes have holes in them, ones that we would have probably thrown out months ago.
Met up with a local Taxi driver who had some air tickets for us and he insisted on taking us around today, which we paid him for, but was nice to have him there. He took us to a local flower market which Llonda has been to several times and likes but it a place where they have a lot of the same stuff, but fun to barter with them. Llonda is a shark at bartering and I am the silent one who stands in the shadows waiting for her to make the deal. Yes surprising to many of you that I am the silent one! But knowing that we were not going to make any purchases yet, since we do not have anymore room in our suitcases to travel to N'gaoundere with I didn't mind. Was nice to get an idea of what they wanted for their stuff. So many beautiful hand crafted items that one can only wish they were that talented to do. The town smells of bad body odor and urine as it's nothing for someone to just urinate on the street or ditch or wherever they want really. And to my understanding they do not want to spend the expense on deodorant as many need the money for food etc. After leaving the market and finding many items that we would love to take back for everyone, our driver took us to a local African restaurant called the White House where it is a buffet. The beer was cold, and the food was plentiful. Not knowing the manners of the culture, we all headed up with a plate and Llonda and I wasted no time digging in. Me being picky of course, but certainly grabbed some items that I had no idea what they were. Our driver only grabbed salad. Not understanding that you went up as a group, and ate as a group and only took salad first. Whoops. It didn't stop us from eating it though. Cous-cous, rice, fish (a whole one), and more mystery meat, with deep fried balls of something that ended up being plantain (this is a fruit here), that I took a few of thinking it was deep fried it had to be good right! All in all it wasn't bad, but very sweet, and it was hard to leave anything on our plates as we are in a starving Country. So I choked most of it down, not wanting to be rude. Our driver refused to go up and get another plate until we all went and I could not bare to get another round, so Llonda went back and we all skipped out on the desert table.
Back
to the hotel to pack and repack some more, fit in a nap, and time to
blog:)
After
getting back to the Ibis we took a nap, which may have been a bad
thing as we were both more tired than when we had laid down. Got up
and went across the street for some coke, then down to the restaurant
for dinner. While outside “checking the weather” we met a local
who speaks some English who refers to Llonda as “Big Mama One”
and me as “Big Mama 2”. He is really into boxing, and is excited
to take us to his club. He gave us his email and phone number and is
anticipating us coming back from N'gaoundere so he can pick us up and
take us to watch him. He was thoroughly impressed with the fact that
even in a knee brace I could kick up to his face and throw him some
upper cuts and knock outs. Thanks to my Billy video work out
sessions. I very much enjoy talking with the locals no matte how
much I can understand them and them understanding me. I had my first
experience with an African gal who kissed both my cheeks and
befriended me like we had been best friends for years and then asked
for a beer. Sadly I could not oblige. It is not by far a cheap
trip. But I am grateful for the time here and feel as if I am making
some lifeline connections, and only wish I could provide for them the
simple needs that they have. Everyone that I have met has truly been
a wonderful person!
A special note to my Re:form students! You are in my thoughts and prayers everyday, and please behave while I'm gone! Love you all:)
We love you and miss you all!
Llonda and Steph
Made it to Douala
March
3rd, 2012
We are
currently on the flight to Douala and this by far has been the
longest lag of flights yet. We are both overly tired and dehydrated
from the little glasses of water given out and no time at the airport
to get any bottles of water. After landing in Brussels we took a bus
over to the other terminal where we once again flashed our passports
and played the hurry up and wait game. That game is very popular
when traveling as we have played it on nearly every trip! Our bodies
are sore and our heads are pounding from the lack of everything,
sleep, oxygen (it smells) and water. We should land in Douala around
6pm here (11am MN time). It will be dark by then and by the time we
go through customs and get all of our luggage and find arrangements
for a ride to the hotel it will most likely be 8pm.
After
landing in Duoala, the airport was very hot! Humidity level at 90%
with a temperature of 88 degrees. I (Steph) still had my MN clothes
on which included a hooded sweathshirt and jeans and so glad I had my
bandana on to keep the sweat from dripping down my face. We both had
large amounts of luggage and had not made prior arrangements to get
to the Ibis hotel which we will later regret. We walked through the
long hallways with windows open and the floor that had cracked tile
on it and stairs that chipped and falling apart. Llonda grabbed a
couple of luggage carts as this time since two of carry on bags had
previosly taken away from us, we had 7 bags to try to get off the
rotating luggage rack. The airport is filled with Africans above
watching everyone which was a picture moment. I handed the camera
over to Llonda and she started clicking away. Security was over in
less than 60 seconds stopping us. They frown upon photos being taken
of or in government buildings. While waiting for our luggage Llonda
was spoted by Abdoulye a former porter she had used before on her
travels here. He was most certainly our saving grace at that moment.
He was there for another traveler and heard we were coming in, but
had the wrong date, so as fate would have it he told us to hang tight
while he picked up the other gentleman and came back to our rescue.
He took one cart of luggage while I took the other and he brought us
over to the Chief of Customs where he approved our luggage, and then
had a couple of kids (I'm sure they were adults but they looked like
kids) to watch our luggage while he took us back into the police area
to meet a couple of the commissioners. Neither of us was in a
presentable position as both were drowned in sweat and smelled
horribly, and were totally exhausted from being up for 30 some hours
straight. But we shook their hands with the last bit of strength we
had left to lift our arms from the total of 400 pounds of luggage we
had been handling and smiled which was the last thing I could think
of doing at that moment. He introduced us as Dr's, which was not
correct but was too hard to explain the difference so we graciously
accepted the compliment and went on our way.
We went back to our luggage which was safe with the kids, and started outside. After being cleared by the chief of customs our luggage wasn't even searched which was wonderful. Headed outside into the darkness and looking at the large amounts of people loitering around and trying to sell their stuff to you, which is how most make their living, we made our way down the broken pavement to wait for two taxi's. No way we could fit in one with all our luggage. We got loaded up and Llonda thought it may be best to talk with Cameroon Air whom we will be flying with on Monday to Garoua to get their luggage requirements. So back into the hot airport to speak with them. Of course it will be another small fortune to fly with all the luggage, despite the fact most of it is medical supplies. So we already know we will have shuffling around to do with our luggage. Finally we are off in the taxi's and enroute to the Ibis. Thanks to Abdouleye all is good!
We went back to our luggage which was safe with the kids, and started outside. After being cleared by the chief of customs our luggage wasn't even searched which was wonderful. Headed outside into the darkness and looking at the large amounts of people loitering around and trying to sell their stuff to you, which is how most make their living, we made our way down the broken pavement to wait for two taxi's. No way we could fit in one with all our luggage. We got loaded up and Llonda thought it may be best to talk with Cameroon Air whom we will be flying with on Monday to Garoua to get their luggage requirements. So back into the hot airport to speak with them. Of course it will be another small fortune to fly with all the luggage, despite the fact most of it is medical supplies. So we already know we will have shuffling around to do with our luggage. Finally we are off in the taxi's and enroute to the Ibis. Thanks to Abdouleye all is good!
We get
settled in, cleaned up and go to the Ibis restaurant for a late
dinner, which would be my first African meal. I struggle with the
menu, and push to order off the kids meal which is not allowed and
after long negotiations our waiter allows me to order something he
choose for me but agrees to keep it seperate on the plate in case I
don't like it. Llonda knows exactly what she wants and has no
problem ordering. Excited for her choice, the waiter comes back that
the avacado's are no good. So she orders something else with no
hesitation. The place is nice and they speak some English and when
our food comes I have meat on my plate that is white and both of us
are unsure of what it is. Starving, I waste no time digging into it,
and it's a familiar taste to me but I still don't know what. Llonda
figures it out as smoked fish. Ahhh, yes! That's exactly what it
is. All in all, not a bad first experience. We came back to the
room and I worked on the computer a little bit while Llonda went to
bed and I got to bed around 11pm which is only 4pm home time but
after not sleeping I was TIRED!
Good
night everyone!
Saturday, March 3, 2012
Travel Day
March
2nd 2:53
We
arrived at the Mpls airport at 12:15 and unloaded the 5- 50lb pound
bags to ck and the 4- 44lb bags of carry-on's (2 each) and headed in.
A special thanks to our neighbor Sven who brought us to the airport
and has been waiting with us ALL day:) Because he works for Delta he
has special clearance to come thru to the gate and could wait with
us. We were suppose to be able to board at 2:12, make it to
Chicago. by 4:44 for our connecting flight to Brussels by 6:01. It
is now 3:15 and we are sitting in a nearby cafe waiting for our
flight. It was pushed back to 3:30 and now to pushed back to 4:30!
We will obviously miss our connect flight and Llonda is very worried,
and I have another tall one. Llonda has gone to stand in the long
line to find out what is going on, and I am working on my first
attempt of the blog. She sends me panic stricken texts from the line
that we are totally screwed and I try very hard to not get too worked
up, as I already had melt down #1 early this morning on the side of
the road at the school.
Llonda
has returned and she convinced the attendant to move us up in seats
to be closer to the front so we can “run” off and catch our
connecting flight in Chicago. Security check in was probably one of
the best expierences I have had yet. Amazed that in the 88 pounds I
could get on and the quart size bag fully packed with liquids and
PASSED through I am pretty confident that we did good in our choices.
With
our 5 bags everyone of them ranged from 49.7 pounds to 51!! And they
were so impressed at how close we were that they let the 51 pounder
go! The amount of time spent packing repacking, weighing and re
weighing, was truly time well spent! We were able to board the plane
in Mpls and officially hit the airways and are now en route to
Chicago. Text's and phone calls have been exchanged by all the kids
and we hope to have contact on the ground in Chicago but time will be
limited and we will be rushed. In order to get on earlier, Llonda
and I could not sit together and for sure I got the better of the
deal. We both got middle seats (yuck) but I was fortunate enough to
have the exit seat so I am free and clear on one side while Llonda a
row back sits between to men sleeping.
Break time and will write more once we get on the long overnight flight to Brussels.
Once
aboard our flight to Chicago we were still hoping we would make our
connecting flight. It was a quick flight, and there and they were
anxiously helping us off the plane to make our connecting flight that
was right across the way. I was surely not going to board though
without hitting a bathroom first which made us literally the LAST TWO
to board. Which also means that two of our carry-ons (not the
backpacks) had to go to checked luggage. So as we sat right outside
the plane doors rearranging all of our bags trying to make sure we
had our most important items with us, as we will not see those bags
again until Douala. Neither of us were happy about that as now if
our luggage is lost or delayed in getting to us, we don't even have a
set of underwear with us!
We are
Currently on the plane to Brussels and at the moment right over
London. Every seat has a TV screen on it and has the option to view
a map of where the plane is and its starting and ending point. I
have taken a few pictures along the way and will try to post one at a
later time. We also have a visitor with us. Flat Stanley is along
for the ride! He is part of a book that a first grade classroom in
Spokane Washington is doing. We received Stanley from our friends
Paula and Noah who received Stanley from her Cousin in Washington.
So periodically you may see a picture including Stanley.
As far
as the flight to Brussels after kicking a couple who had moved into
our seats out, we tried to settle in as best as we could with a back
pack each that started off somewhat organized and now is a total
mess. Llonda watched a movie or two while I listened to a book on
tape and both of us have tried to sleep a bit. I befriended a cute
little girl in the seat ahead of us, who has what must be her twin
sister with and their dad. They couldn't be much more than 2 or 3,
but we have had fun playing peek a boo. We occupied more time with a
cribbage game (that I won) and of course ate. The food was certainly
not terrible for plane food, but I wasn't hungry to eat the
breakfast. We left Chicago at around 6:30 pm Friday the 2nd,
and it is currently 1:30 am in MN and 8:30 am here. We have about a
half hour left of the flight with about a two hour lay over in
Brussels to aboard another long flight to Douala.
Wishing everyone well!
Here is a view of the Sahara Desert.
Friday, March 2, 2012
Finally On Our Way
March 1st
The outpouring of support continues. Our community, church, co-workers and friends keep piling it on & right about now; we wish that we could drive a semi straight to Africa . We have packed and re-packed, weighed and re-weighed our suitcases so many times. Both of our stress levels are running high, at least at a 9. We fight about what to take and how to pack it. How does one best decide? Do you take life saving medications for patients with heart disease and high blood pressure or glucometers and insulin to treat diabetics? Or there are the screening kits for cervical cancer and needle-less IV systems to protect healthcare workers from Aids. & oh yes the package from Global Health that must be included, the list goes on and on. We compromise and throw out one of the snacks we planned to take, less socks and underwear. Hopefully we don’t regret that choice!
The emotions that one feels leading up to a trip such as this are really hard to describe. The anticipation mounts; you are both excited and terrified at the same time. You worry about the kids, the family, the house, and the dogs, the house/dog-sitter, and even the cats. Will it snow while we are away? Will the guy you have lined up to plow the driveway dig too deep into the gravel? Will the houses old electrical system die while we are gone? Trust me when I say…you just worry about everything. Things you typically don’t even give a second thought too. It is hard to put a label on what one is feeling; perhaps it is not worry but just comes out that way.
Being total control freaks, we are reminded that control is an illusion. For sure we are headed to a place where we will have control over nothing. We will be running on African time, the plane comes when it wants or doesn’t show up at all. This is a place very different from what we are familiar with, and one in which we must learn to go with the flow, take it as it comes and oh yes, there is patience. This is difficult, as we are especially not patient people! We would throw in a book to read, but then that would put our luggage overweight. Oh what to do? For sure we will not be ready until we get on that plane and then we will cry most of the way to Chicago . But hey it’s for a good cause right?
Some people ask, “Why would you even want to do this?” I am uncertain of how to answer that, other than to say that mission work is probably more about building on the character of the one performing the mission, at least as much as it is about the very people you are trying to help. Hopefully we will both return in one piece and be better people for it.
Last night we had a big send off supper with our families and Pastor Noah. We had one last feast of American food before we go. Thanks everyone for the donated goods, well wishes, money, prayers, and oh yes that awesome African cake.
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